This year I gave
one of my daughters a birthday card with the punch line: "Blame your parents."
The fact that she is now a parent herself was an added twist.
When it comes to looking at my running
career, I say, "Blame my husband." Ed was the first to take an interest in the
competitive activity that we both have enjoyed throughout most of our adult lives. Years
ago, he informed the family that he was going to run in a race at "Keizer Days",
a street festival that the whole family enjoyed for the parade. Because we were planning
to ride bikes, Ed was nearly late for the race after strapping all those wheels onto the
car. We met him at the finish line, where a group of happy people mingled, complete with
"high fives" and big hugs. Did that ever look like fun! I must be missing
something in life! Afterwards, Ed drove us around the route, and I was amazed at how far
he had run!
I started running a block, then two, until I
was up to three miles. Octoberfest was coming up, and Ed told me that I could run the
10-km course and would never come in last. I had my doubts . . . but I ran it and got a
blue ribbon. Was I hooked? Oh yes, andnearly 25 years later Im still
competing, race-walking these days.
When our children were youngsters, we
encouraged them to enjoy the sport and we became a relay team called "The Lean and
Means". Good family fun it was, and relived through our running scrapbook.
I was reminded recently at the Bush Park
Runs of how self-conscious I was at 40 of saying my age. A woman came in to give her
husband support after his race. I was taking the sticks and jotting down placement. I
asked for his age, and she replied in a whisper. I could not hear her, of course, but she
clearly did not want to broadcast his age. In the running community, we soon learn that
moving into a higher age bracket means that we may have a better chance of winning.
Ed has always wanted me to run a marathon,
and he said that he would help me to train. Recently, I decided to race-walk "Circle
the Bay", a 30-km event, my longest race to date. Normally, half-marathons are my
distance. Ed has run the Coos Bay route for many years, and we enjoy the party atmosphere
following the race (and visiting Eds "Aunt Dorothy").
I began by increasing my miles, and Ed
volunteered to ride along on his bike whenever I did a long training run. Thus, starting
at the golf course on Dallas Highway, I took off, with Ed following on his bike. In the
past, when Ed and Al Oppliger were training, they would collect cans along the way, so Ed
was prepared with plastic bags. Along the route, he told me how much he was enjoying the
excursion and what fun it was to find so many cans. (Like an Easter egg hunt, I suppose.)
By the time I had race-walked 15 miles, I was embarrassed to be with him. He looked like a
"bag man" for sure! After our training day out, he mentioned several times that
we should do it again, but I decided it was better for my self-esteem to go alone around
the hills of West Salem.
The race was a day away. We had planned our
stay at the Red Lion Inn and ate at Bedettis our favorite Italian Restaurant in
Coos Bay. Eggplant Parmesan, with Minestrone soup and a great green salad, is the best! We
drove the length of the course, checking the mileage and placing bottles about every three
miles. I was to provide my own supplies, as I was starting at 6:30 A.M. and the runners
started at 8:00 A.M. On the day, the weather was good, and I met two women from Eugene who
were friends preparing for the Portland Marathon. They did not know the course and were
walking 12:15 mile-pace. They wanted me to stay with them. Ed met me at the three-mile
mark outside the Red Lion and surprised us all with three cups of water perched on the
hood of the car. What a guy! We were able to leave some of our clothing behind, and then
Ed was off for the beginning of his race. The gals were surprised that I remembered all my
stashes of water, but declined my offers to share. Earlier, at Sun River, I took water
EVERY mile, even if just a sip and the rest over the head, because one does get
dehydrated. I was warned to save myself for the bridge a mile-long stretch at the
finish. The other gals came in first, about a minute ahead of me. I figure that I got
behind trying to corral a puppy that continued to run with me. Its disabled owner was
having difficulty retrieving the dog. At the 20-km mark, a number of high school students,
waiting to take off with the relay, finally got the dog! I thought that I might feel
emotional when I had finished the race, but I just felt relieved. I had done it! And it
was such fun that I may do it again next year.
Mind you, over the years, there have been
downers, two in particular. I remember coming off the hills of Portland with a
continuous pain in my foot. I had been preparing for a very fine finish at the
"Cascade Runoff" and was feeling so competitive at the time that, if the pain
hadnt slowed me down to the point where many runners had already passed me, I would
have completed the race. I got some ice immediately upon finishing and was put in a cast
for a stress fracture due to my Mortons toe. The other event occurred when I was
preparing for a marathon and planning for Boston in the future. We were out on a fun-run
with our two older daughters, but it was a hot day and I came home with the girls, while
Ed continued running. When I reached the house, I got a shooting pain in my head, followed
by diarrhea and projectile vomiting. As a nurse, I knew something was not right and
instructed our oldest daughter to dial 911. For the next three weeks, I was in the
hospital with a ruptured aneurysm. I was paralyzed on my right side but, with the miracle
of cortisone and many prayers, I was healed. I remember the nurses whispering that I was
"the runner" (like this is what happens when you run).
Indeed, I was the runner and I continued
running (healthily, happily, and because this is what happens when you run). About five
years ago, following arthroscopic surgery on one of my knees, I decided to take up
race-walking. I still run once in awhile but I have been told that race-walking and
running do not mix.